Common question. how to get my girlfriend back? (Or this could be your ex wife as well) First lets study some facts. More than 75% of breakups, females are the ones who usually break up with men. And just from considering that stat its pretty apparent they hold the power in the relationship even if you don't think so. Sometimes however, she realized she wants to get back with him. She could be embarrassed by the way she handled the situation and as a result will not let you know her true feelings of wanting to get back with you. Until you make the move yourself you will be at a deadlock and remain apart. So this is up to you to figure out how to win your girlfriend back.

To win back your girlfriend, you have to pursue a two pronged approach. First. Show her you are coveted. Second. Show her you're available and you want her to come back.

If there was a core reason for the break up, you need to address that. For instance, when Jim and Michelle first started dating he took her to baseball games and nice restaurants, because she really enjoyed discovering new things. As things got more comfortable in the relationship, the times they went out, increasingly rotated around his desire for sports. In fact, after Michelle called the relationship off, Brad realized that they hadnt taken her to any interesting places in nearly four months.

Jim realized that in order to win her back, he had to show her the exciting stuff that she had been lacking from the relationship.

Jim didn't bombard Michelle with calls and text messages right away. He gave her her space. But a few weeks after the break up, he casually mentioned that he had two tickets to the symphony and asked whether she would like to go just as friends.

Of course, Michelle jumped at the offer to do something she liked with the man she was still in love with. Jim and Michelle went to the concert and then he took her to a romantic restaurant where he bought the best bottle of wine on the menu. Michelle was blown away by the new Jim and started hinting that she wouldn't mind restarting the relationship.

At this point, the ball was in Jim's court. He now had the upper hand to define how they were going to get back together. Winning your girlfriend back is now getting her back on your terms.

Michelle that he enjoyed the night and hoped they would have many more just like it in the future. He also explained that he also enjoyed his sports and hoped that if the decided to reconcile she would be open to learning more about his passions.

Since she was having a great time with him she agreed to make the effort. Now the terms of for their new relationship was established and both Rachel and Phil were very glad.

Remember, Michelle broke up with Jim in a fit of pique. But she didn't really want to end the relationship.Scott handled everything just right in realizing what was lacking, fixing it, and then proceeding under a new set of rules.

And, that is How to get back with your girlfriend.

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